Divorce Starting-Point Checklist

This is an organizational tool, not legal advice. Divorce law varies by state and situation. Use this to get organized and to know what to ask an attorney or mediator — not as a substitute for one. Do not close accounts, move money, or sign anything based only on this tool. Nothing you type leaves this page.

Tell me about your situation

Only used to tailor your list. Nothing is saved or sent anywhere.

Your first name or initials (optional, just personalizes the list)

Where are you in the process?

Still considering Planning to file Responding to a filing Already underway

Do you have children together?

Yes No

Do you own a home together?

Yes No

How are your finances tied together?

Mostly joint Some of each Mostly separate

How do you expect it to go?

Amicable Not sure Contested / difficult

Do you have legal help yet?

Yes Consulting Not yet

Can you access shared financial documents?

Mostly yes Some No

What U.S. state (or region)? (used only to point you to the right court)

Is your safety, or your children's, a concern? (this only adds a support resource — nothing is recorded)

No Yes / maybe

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Reminder: this is a starting-point organizer, not legal advice. Confirm anything about filing, finances, or custody with an attorney or mediator in your state before acting.